Assessing the Past
Episode 9 · 2004-09-23

- Drama
- Reality
Episode overview
Today in group, the women talk about about Deborah and why she left. Iyanla states that this was a choice Deborah made, not because of them but because she believed it was best for her. She stresses that this is not an abandonment. Rhonda explained that Deborah left because she wasn't completely honest about things. Sinae relates the story of her boyfriend Matt, a relationship that is hanging in limbo. They never really broke up but the aren't exactly together. Rhonda suggests that Sinae call Matt and ask him to come to the Starting Over house for the weekend. Sinae makes several attempts to call Matt but is not able to get in touch with him. She tells Rhonda that having him constantly walking in and out of her life is frustrating. Rhonda worries that Sinae will give up what she wants to be with Matt. Sinae is finally able to get in contact with Matt but decides she doesn't want to see him at all because she is just calling him out of desperation, not out of a need to be with him. Dr.
60 minutes
Season 2 episodes
1. Starting Over, Again2004-09-13
2. How Ya Livin'?2004-09-14
3. Father Figure2004-09-15
4. Family Secrets2004-09-16
5. Midnight Emergency2004-09-17
6. Day of Pampering2004-09-20
7. A Dark Secret Revealed2004-09-21
8. Understanding Forgiveness2004-09-22
9. Assessing the Past2004-09-23
10. A New Addition2004-09-24
11. Rough Start2004-09-27
12. Plain Jane2004-09-28
13. Controlling the Trust2004-09-29
14. Shameful Secrets2004-09-30
15. Talk to Strangers2004-10-01
16. Queen of Punishment2004-10-02
17. People Pleasing2004-10-05
18. Sommer's Accusation2004-10-06
19. Food, Glorious Food2004-10-07
20. Board of Review Breakthrough2004-10-08
21. Anger Management2004-10-11
22. Feeling Knotty2004-10-12
23. Family Issues2004-10-13
24. Sisterhood2004-10-14
25. Wash Away Mistakes2004-10-15
26. A Sepcial Visit2004-10-18
27. Disappearing Act2004-10-19
28. Let's Talk About Sex2004-10-20
29. Divine Intervention2004-10-21
30. Towanda Confronts Iyanla2004-10-22
31. Nay-Nay Graduates2004-10-25
32. Tragegy Strikes2004-10-26
33. A New Housemate2004-10-27
34. Day of Indulgence2004-10-28
35. Jennifer Struggles2004-10-29
36. Anger Session2004-11-01
37. Good Girls Do Bad Things2004-11-02
38. Sisterhood Meeting2004-11-03
39. Letting Go2004-11-04
40. Boot Camp2004-11-05